*~*Spoken Thoughts*~*

Friday, 14 March 2008

  • Now what? 何去何从?

    I have come to the point where I no longer knows what to blog. Or more precisely, what I should or should not blog. After some incidents and hearing the opinions of some people, my heart is lukewarm. Will whatever I blog now be use against me in the future? Is it wrong to talk about my personal life because of what I am now? I guess this blog will be kept frozen from now onwards. No promises. I will still come back again if I want to...

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    诀别诗, 两三行,
    写在三月春雨的路上。

Tuesday, 25 December 2007

  • Currently Reading
    Yakuza Moon: Memoirs of a Gangster's Daughter
    By Shoko Tendo
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    Free & Easy Trip to Korea, SEOUL (4/12 - 9/12)

    I meant it when I used the word "Free & Easy". My friend and I didn't even go through any tour agency; all information and booking was done ONLINE. We decided to do this a few months back as we wanted to go on a trip to somewhere faraway on our own, and yet affordable. Since my friend have friends from Korea, so it was our choice.

    Just like my previous blog about Taipei & Hong Kong, I shall share my thoughts about the trip instead of what we do and blah blah blah...

    1) Free and easy means you need to do your homework before the trip. Therefore, I did some research and even draw up an itinerary. I also visited the Korea Tourism booth at the Travel Fair at Expo a few months ago. The free brochures, guide books & maps which I collected proved to be of great help too. 

    2) This is the 1st time I went to a place with Real Winter. I didn't know how much cold my body can tolerate, and so, ended up bringing stuff which I didn't use at all. The following list is created based on me, so it may not apply to you...

    • Clothes: Since you won't sweat much / at all during winter, just bring enough to mix & match. 1 good down jacket is enough for a 1 week trip; you just need to air it every night.
    • Accessories: I used plastic ear sticks only as I put on ear muffs most of the time. The most important acessory is gloves. I do well without scarf and hat since I can just pull up the hood of my down jacket. There is also no point to wear a necklace what so ever unless you decide to expose your neck and risk getting frost bite.
    • Socks/Shoes: Normal cotton socks (not ankle socks!) works for me, even when the temperature went down to -6 degrees celsius. (Not sure if it works for skiing too...) A pair of covered shoes is what you need. For me, I wore my Reebok Sports shoes (for running). You can opt for boots if you are the fashion sensitive type.
    • Heat packs / warmers: I didn't use it at all. When I'm really cold, I opt for a hot drink instead. (Cafes are almost everywhere!)
    • Electronic devices: You'll need a adaptor as the voltage is different from Singapore. As for handphones, only 3G phones work. Even if you are carrying a 2G phone with autoroam (which I did), it is useless there.
    • Skin care: Moisturizer for the face, body and lips it a MUST. I kept reapplying lip balm & gloss to keep my lips from cracking. Basic makeup (all in one foundation, eyebrown pencil & lip gloss) was all I neeeded.

    3) The standard of living there is way higher than singapore. Taxi fare starts at 1900 won (SGD3) & jumps 100 won (SGD0.15) each time. You'll need a considerable amount of cash when travelling free & easy. I started off with 255,000 won and had to look for a money changer by the 3rd day. I was lucky to have my VISA, which was my saver during the last day there. 

    4) The subway system is much more complicated than our MRT system since there's 8 different lines. To start taking the subway, 1st find out the station and its line of your starting point. Next, find out your destination station and the last station of the line it falls on. (Eg. You are at Tampines station and you are going to Bugis station. The last station in the correct travelling line will be Boon Lay, and you'll be on the East-West line.) Find out the ticket price from the pricing board before buying a one-way ticket at the ticketing booth. After that, follow the signboard carefully to get to the correct platform. You'll need to change lines most of the time, so get off at the correct interchange station.

    5) The people there are generally a friendly bunch. However, you may find them just a little rude sometimes as it is not in their culture to apologise for that accidental bump etc. Korean is their main language and if you don't speak even simple pharases, it'll be pretty tough. English & Chinese is more or less useless unless you are lucky enough. Body language is useful. (Eg. showing numbers with your fingers)

    6) Shopping and haggering can come together only at certain places. (Eg. Dongdaemon) When the boss offered a price, think of a lower but reasonable price and counter offer just once. If the boss is unwilling to compromise, walk away and the boss will ask you back if he or she wants business. Being a girl, I also found it easier to hagger with young male bosses. *laughs*

    7) Street food is another must try. I like egg kimbap the best.  Some Korean food can be found in singapore, but you can still eat them there for a more authentic flavour? Kimchi is provided for free in the eateries and restaurants all the time. Be daring and open to try something new.

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    My Korea Trip photos are available here:
    http://www.flickr.com/gp/13442933@N06/8Z3vy6    

    I welcome all questions and will try to answer them if I could.

Thursday, 20 December 2007

  • 1st Step

    I found this article which I wrote back in my poly days. How naive was I at that time. As I read this article, I don't even believe it. Haha...

     

    第一步

     

       之前还是“名花无主”的姐姐告诉我,现在的男生当中,不乏有个性非常被动的。我也不明白:社会不是越变越开放了吗,为什么还要背着‘不敢’的枷锁?虽然心里喜欢,却有不采取主动。她曾经也是受害者之一,幸亏现已获得自己的幸福。

     

       你等我,我又等你。一直到最后,那份好感渐渐的被时间的河流冲淡,什么痕迹也没有了。你是否也有一段类似的经验呢?如果你在后悔当初的“不主动”而羡慕勇敢主动的人,不要再犹豫不决了。

     

       鼓起所有的勇气,大胆地去尝试吧。不管是男生还是女生,你不踏出那第一步,就很难会有接下来的路。就算是失败了,但你也努力过了,不是吗?无论是成功是失败,还是“主动”一点吧!

  • My Blog is ALIVE because of Shopping!

    Ok, the title is pretty self explanatory since I have not blog for the passed 3 months (again...) But then again, who cares right? *evil laugh* Anyway, back to title, someone was bored on a public holiday afternoon and thus, decide to photograph what she bought recently. The photos can be divided onto 2 categories - Local & Overseas. For those of you who are still clueless, I went to South Korea for 6 days earlier on in the month. I shall divulge more when I get my hands on the complete set of photos! (Wileen, are you reading this?)

    ...K.O.R.E.A...

    Korean Cookie Snacks
    I'm a foodie, so that explain the snacks. By the way, this is only PART of what I bought. The rest have ended up in the various stomachs.

    Caps Bag
    As it is now winter in Korea, I could not find clothes that I can wear here. Instead, I found many cute little accessories. I even put my skill of bargaining to the test.  My best bargain was the American Eagles sling bag which I got for 30,000 won (OP: 54,000).

    Necklace Shades
    Lollipop: Courtesy of street side stall owner in Myeong-dong 

    Earring2 Earring
     Ring Ring2
    The 14,000 won earring I bought from this arty building where only original, designer items are sold. The ring costs only half the amount of the earring. Besides piggy, I bought another ring which was of the musical note design. (Somebody will get it for Christmas!)

    ...L.O.C.A.L...

     Music Box
    Hand-wound musical box I bought from inQbox at Suntec. This lovely little piece of instrument comes in various music. Leanne and me have so much fun turning everyone of them in the shop and I got myself the one which plays the chorus of "My Favourite Things" (Sound of Music). How nice, but intricate things like this do not come cheap... 

    Clothes
    Mature fashion is in for me since I can wear it to work & for casual purpose too (if I mix it differently). Care to guess the clothes which I'll wear for Chinese New Year? (No prize even for a correct answer, ok?) 

    Random1 Random2  
    I finally got my 1st set of Ettusais skin care from BHG, Bugis yesterday. Great!! I wanted to try their products since forever, but I didn't have the $$$ to get it last time anyway. One of the perks of working is this! Please ignore my 2nd photo if you wish. However, you may be interested to know how many Watsons I went to before I bought this wet wipes. The original one which I was using is OUT OF STOCK...  

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    A long post as compensation. More photos should be coming, besides our Korean trip... There's also our Girl's Outing to Vivo, Leanne's Potluck Party as well as the up coming Christmas celebration!

Sunday, 09 September 2007

  • Nga Chi's Birthday Celebration

    The gang met out to celebrate a belated birthday for Nga Chi, who turned 21 on the 5th Sept. This time, we went to Clarke Quay for a night of fun and laughter.

    1st Stop: Billy Bombers, The Central
    We went there for dinner & cake cutting ceremony.

      
    Nga Chi, the birthday girl with her lovely chocolate birthday cake from Prima Deli.


    Greedy hands (Jas & me) stealing the chocolate slices off the cake...

    Next stop: MOS (Ministry of Sound)
    Zong Neng got us tickets for the NUS bash where they were having inter-faculty dance competition between Medicine, Nursing, Dentistry & Pharmacy. After which, we stayed on a little longer for drinks & chit chat.

     

     
    In the club...

     

     
    Going out of the club...

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    Next time round: pubbing / bar for Jasmine's birthday... Can't wait!

Monday, 03 September 2007

  • Na Ying's Song (Bai Tian Bu Dong Ye De Hei)

    那英 《白天不懂夜的黑》

     

    我们之间没有延伸的关系

    (There is no extended relationship between us)

    没有相互占有的权利

    (Don’t have the right of having each other)

    只在黎明混着夜色时

    (Only when the dawn is mixed with the dark)

    才有浅浅重叠的片刻

    (There’ll be a moment of little intersection)

     

    *白天和黑夜只交替没交换

    (The day and night only interchange, not exchange)

    无法想像对方的世界

    (Cannot imagine what the other’s world is like)

    我们仍坚持各自等在原地

    (We still insisted on waiting at our own original spot)

    把彼此站成两个世界*

    (Seperating us into two worlds)

     

    Chorus:

    你永远不懂我伤悲

    (You will never understand my sadness)

    像白天不懂夜的黑

    (Just like the day will not understand the darkness of the night)

    像永恒燃烧的太阳

    (Like the eternal burning sun)

    不懂那月亮的盈缺

    (Will not understand the changes of the moon)

    你永远不懂我伤悲

    (You will never understand my sadness)

    像白天不懂夜的黑

    (Just like the day will not understand the darkness of the night)

    不懂那星星为何会坠跌

    (Don’t understand why the stars fell)

     

    Repeat **

    Chorus

    Chorus

     

    不懂我伤悲就好像白天不懂夜的黑

    (Don’t understand my sadness is just like the day will not understand the darkness of the night)

Sunday, 12 August 2007

  • Pa's Birthday

    Nope, it's not today. Pa's actual birthday is on the 16/8, but we decided to have it early, so everyone can be around for the celebration. Pa is still not well enough to go out, so we ordered KFC delivery for him. 2nd sis also bought him a fruit cake from Polar Puff. And as our family tradition, ma boiled an egg for everyone & 2 eggs for Pa (the birthday boy). It's simple, but we are happy.

    Pa Bday
    A collage made by me. And yup, funny faces are cool in our house!

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    I'll try to update the stuff when I was MIA. Now, where should I start?

Sunday, 24 June 2007

  • The Wedding

    In case you are wondering about the title, it's not me who got married. It's my 2nd sis... Finally, a wedding in my family. I'll just give a quick timeline of the wedding. Refer to the photos & captions for more!

    Wedding1
    (Pre-wedding: Getting our nails ready & pretty for the day...)

    Wedding Day - 23/06/07 (Sat)
    5am The Bride & Bridesmaid, as well as the rest of the family (beside me), got up before the makeup artist comes.
    6.30am Arrival of makeup artist with her helper, to get the Bride & Bridesmaid ready for the start of the wedding.
    7am I only woke up now...

    Wedding2
    (The makeup artist resembles the taiwan artist, Xiao Qiao by the way...)

    8.40am Our relatives who came for the morning Tea Ceremony started to arrive at our house.

    Wedding3
    (Relatives)

    9.30am The Groom came to pick up his wife-to-be, but of course, there'll be some hurdles to overcome before he got into the house.

    Wedding4
    (Photos for memories)

    10.30am Tea Ceremony at the Groom's House
    12pm Tea Ceremony & Refreshments at the Bride's House
    2.15pm Church Wedding & High Tea Reception

    Wedding5
    (My father walked my sister down the aisle; church choir singing hymns; the super lovely flower boy & flower girl...)

    5pm Back home, everyone "fought" for the make-up artist to get ready for the wedding dinner.

    Wedding6
    (Shots of myself , showing that I can be a little "zi-lian"...)

    7.10pm Me helping out at the reception while guest started to come in.
    8.30pm - 10.30pm Wedding dinner
    11.30pm End / Home sweet home

    The above pics were all that I have. Only the photographer attached to the wedding has the complete collection, which hopefully I'll be able to post again. We received alot of help that day, like the bridesmaid, best man, friends, neighbours, relatives, make-up artist, photographer, drivers... A BIG thanks to all of them for making the wedding Great!

Friday, 22 June 2007

  • 15 Contradiction of Singaporean....

    So funny, yet so true! Enjoy...

    1 . Nite - Sleep with air-con, Day - Bath with heater on

    2. Day - Cannot Wake up, Nite - Cannot Sleep

    3. Translation is need between Singaporean Chinese and Mainland Chinese

    4. Smell Of rubbish beside letterboxes, Rubbish in front of Letterbox.

    5. Some Sg Chinese use different language other then chinese to communicate.

    6. Sg ppl dun like to vote, But like to complain

    7. Half of Sg ppl dunno how to speak the country's language (malay)

    8. There are quite a few rich/poor ppl in sg - They have Car, Credit Card, CPF but no Cash and is liable to lots of loans

    9. There are also quite a few high-tech barbaric singaporean in sg - They know how to use state-of-the art equipment, use 3g mobile phone and powerful computers but they dunno how to use a simple dustbin or a toilet.

    10. Sg ppl rush to buy Hello kitty, the other side busy killing stray cats

    11. Chewing Gum - Can Chew, Cannot buy?? (Restricted buying)

    12. Cigarettes - Convienent to buy, not convienent to smoke

    13. Private Cars - Cheaper and Cheaper to buy, harder and harder to Maintain

    14. Public Bus - Half the Crowd Squeeze in front of the Bus, Second Half is Carrying Ghost

    15. Education - Teach Less Learn More.

Tuesday, 19 June 2007

  • 21st Birthday

    I can't really remember this blog recorded how many of my birthday celebrations. But 21, is a special number. To me, it means you are a adult. You can go anywhere, watch all the R21 shows, get married without your parents consent etc etc. However, it also means you are totally responsible for yourself. Whatever you do, no excuse at all... No wonder I was feeling the anxiety a few days before my birthday.

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    Since I was having seperate celebration, I met up with Leanne on friday (15/6) & collected my birthday cake along the way. We wanted to watch Spider Lilies (starring Rainie Yeung) but there were no suitable timeslot. We shopped around and had dinner at Crystal Jade instead. It was a simple evening, but it was a important eve for me.

    16/06/2007 is the big day where I started the day with my "cake cutting ceremony". Only 3 of my friends managed to eat my marvellous cheese cake (from N.Y.D.C) with me. But thankfully, I still have my family with me. Afternoon was spent singing at KBox & the highlight of the day was done in the late evening. The Food Game A.K.A Shi Zi Lu Kou was played at Marina Square, in which my team lost as we couldn't find 1 of the food items... Turns out I have a taste of my own forfeit, the super sour Honey Lemon juice... And the day ended with more eating, chit chatting & photo taking at a restaurant in City Link.

    Overall, the whole affair was simple yet close to heart. No big gatherings, no chalet or what so ever. Maybe you may feel that it's nothing special. But to me, quality is definitely more important than quantity...  Photos coming up soon!